BLOG by Karen Offord
29th November 2014
You read:
- How I lost 20 kilos
- How I went from broke to a 6 figure income
- How I finally met the man/women of my dreams
- How I rented to owning 5 houses
- How I ____________!
Many claim to have done it overnight or in a very short space of time.
You get excited, pumped. You believe you can too and so it begins. Nothing can
stop you. You want this. It happened for them. Why not you!
You made a choice, the starting pistol has been fired, and you’re off!
Then it's not as fast as you thought, isn't turning out like you imagined? But
they've all done it? "I'm sure I'm following what they did" (whoever 'they' are)
you think to yourself.
Frustrated, discouraged, hope dies a little. You may give up and just think you’re
not that lucky, you may take a break and come back, just a little time to
rethink, check, research. You try again or you don't but either way you’re
still where you started. Same weight, same job, same bank balance, same
relationship status, same _________ whatever it was you set out to change - right?
Wrong. I say this not negatively but, in truth you can never be the same from a
previous moment. How? It feels like it you might say, nothing's changed! You’re
not the same because you have thought one more thing, tried one more thing, you
know one more thing, you believed it was possible, you started, you’re thinking
shifted to a higher level.
The successful people we look up to and try to emulate are people just like us.
With fears, hopes, challenges, failures. Some may seemingly succeed overnight (some may
be hoaxes to get you to pass over your hard earned cash - watch out for them. Although if their doing it there has to be some cleverness, although
deceiving, behind their scheme - but you don't want that). It's easy to feel like
these successful people must have had access to more money, more time, more
resources just more.... but very often you don't see their whole journey. What
you see is the motion picture! The final cut, once all the takes are done. All
the cutting, polishing, editing. Then you (as the hopeful) get to sit back in your comfort zone (still as you are) humble with popcorn and a large soda in hand
and watch. You see the '10' not the 1-10. 1, 2, 3, 4 Etc. are all the trials,
failures, mishaps, stuff ups, down moments, fears, but they are also all the
little steps and successes that add up to the final awesome '10' blockbuster!
When you’re trying, really trying and think you've gone nowhere and it's not
possible for you (your probably at 2 or 3 (maybe a little more) not 1 because
at least you started (awesome). What separates them from you is you have to
keep going, you have to work throw every step and remind yourself it is a
process. You need to try things, see what works, what doesn't, what's right for
you. And really take hold of the fact that although you don't feel like you've
achieved - you have - you are one step closer.
Keep going. Laugh at not being 'there' yet! For you are becoming a master of
your own self by learning, experiencing, trying, doing, getting back up when
you fall down brushing of the dust and moving forward. And most importantly be
ever so grateful for everything and everyone and every possibility and
opportunity that surrounds you. Because it does surround you - you just have to see
it! The more that you look, the more that you'll see the more the gift of
gratitude will come easily (and the cycle continues and grows).
What will get you there is building the belief that you are capable, just as
capable as anyone else. You have something unique to offer, something no one
else has, YOU.
And if that all seems a little hazy there are ways to help you, support is
never far away!
- Keep a record of all your attempts and successes
- Be your own cheer leader but also enlist the help, support and encouragement
of someone you trust. Someone who wants to see you succeed.
- Keep following those that have done it. Be inspired, watch, learn, try what
they do and do what they try.
- Be grateful every day for all that is already! And all that is possible.
- Invest in yourself because you hold the key to your success and becoming one
of those people who writes or shares HOW I ____________ and HOW YOU CAN TOO!
We all want to succeed and all those (well most of them) who have succeeded,
share it because they want you to succeed too!