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Personal Development for Life - Risk Without Realising
July 04, 2015

Risk Without Realising

The school holidays are here again. For me I say YAY but I understand not all parents feel this way. Life gets a little more hectic, kids get bored, they often argue with siblings and entertainment isn't always cheap.

Although my time is a little stretched now due to a hectic work schedule, the school holidays are something I always look forward too as my kids and I spend as much time as we can chatting, laughing and playing board games. Board games are a fun way of connecting and just spending time together, not just in the holidays but on weekends as well. Sometimes our games last for days. We love them, we always have.

Games have always been a part of our family entertainment. My earliest memories of playing games are with my grandparents. With a piece of paper and a pencil we would play for hours a game we simply called 'boy-girl' (My sister and I have for longest time thought about putting it into production for others to play and enjoy, note to self; must do that).

So Games for us have wonderful memories. Many hours of fun, sitting around the table playing anything from boggle, scrabble, boy/girl, cards, charades, and monopoly to the newer DVD trivia games. I like to add a new game under the Christmas tree every year, for us all to enjoy.

But it was the last game we played, (besides one very unusual, rather crude, often very rude but strangely hilarious card game) that got me thinking; the Lord of the Rings board game RISK.

Although fun as we each gained our territory's, built our forces and challenged each other to conquer new territories (It can be quite competitive!) the word RISK stood out in my mind. RISK has positive and negative connotations depending on how you apply it and the meaning you place on it. But in this case being games, school holidays and spending time with our kids it posed the thought of what we risk missing out on.

As adults our lives can be very busy. Sometimes we're just exhausted, too busy, shrug things of as not that important or a waste of time or we’re simply so consumed with pressing important issues over work, bills, relationships and other matters.

So this post is simply an encouragement to make the most of our time and create memorable moments with our kids. Time passes so quickly, my kids are now 23 & 17 (but we still play games).

They grow up so fast and it's time we can never get back. So I encourage you all to see the school holidays as a magical time you get to spend bonus hours with your kids. No matter what age they are there's something fun you can do together, without spending a fortune.

Below is a list of some of the things my kids and I did and do over the holidays.

- Board games (clearly)

- Card games

- Pull out all the Lego on a big sheet on the lounge room floor - with a goal before the holidays are over to build something, using every piece they own

- Build cubby houses inside and out

- Play hide n seek

- When you’re really tired take them to the video store to pick out a movie and popcorn, then snuggle up on the lounge

- Build a camp fire in your backyard (if you can) grab some marshmallows and tell stories, or play movie charades

- The dictionary game. Just pull out the dictionary; someone plucks out a word from the page they randomly open at - and the next person has to say what they think it means

- Bake cookies, a cake or make tacos together and set up a picnic on your lounge room floor

- Read a story or make up our own crazy adventure

- Go to the park, just play or make up a sequence course on the equipment for each person to complete (we’d time each other for fun)

- Play Mr Squiggle. For those old enough to remember Mr Squiggle was an ABC show, where drawings of squiggles were sent in and he had to transform them into a picture (an animal, a person, a thing)

- As they got older we'd go window shopping, looking at what they might like for upcoming birthdays and Christmas then have a simple coffee together, to talk

- Driving lessons are always fun, we pick a cafe and off we head. It doesn’t have to be a stressful event. I can’t tell you how many hours we’ve enjoyed just in a local deserted card park reversing and learning gears.

Currently we have a game of monopoly going, it will stay set up during the holidays and every chance we get we'll pick up where we left off....

Or kids are a beautiful gift to us and we are their greatest teachers.

They watch, they listen (believe it or not) they learn and time spent with them is the greatest gift we can give them. Create moments and memories to treasure. That's what you'll remember at the end of your life. Our children will also remember the time you spent together (or didn't) too.

Feel free to share your favourite magic memorable moments or family traditions. You just may inspire another to try the same.

P.S I had planned to post this last night but we were busy playing monopoly. Just about to get back to it.

Wishing you a fabulous school holiday break!

I welcome your comments, thoughts and feedback

Karen Offord is the author of 'Dare to Dream, Your Journey of a Lifetime'. She is an author, blogger and professional counsellor - helping men and women who desire to make positive changes in their life by providing an abundance of information, tools and resources - so they can experience, enjoy and live the life they desire and deserve, full of love, hope and joy. I welcome and encourage you to also visit and upload a happy photo to: Acknowledging the simple things in life that make you smile. In doing so you also help someone in need by way of my wonderful sponsors donating $1 to charity for each happy :) photo uploaded :) Full details found on the page. With sincerity, hope and gratitude - Thank You :)
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